Showing posts with label Living in Macedonia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Living in Macedonia. Show all posts

Jul 3, 2012

The study strike is over!!

Yeah, I finally began to study today for the first time in days.  I was really unmotivated for a number of reasons.  But mostly because I'm a lazy miserable homesick brat.  It's the fourth of July tomorrow, and all my family is telling me there fun plans, and I'm so jealous.  I wish I could go to the barbeque with everyone, but I can't this year.  I'll say, I never really appreciated family gathering so much in the past, but I guess I'm starting to get a little sentimental as I approach my 30's.  Anyways, I've kept busy during my strike.

I baked a cherry pie:


I made my first Зелник со сирење (Pastry with cheese):

I discovered the mysterious hssss that made my husband think the a/c was broken.  After some investigating, it turns out that one of my canned cherry jars didn't make it and started to leak and release gas.  That was the hsss'ing sound.  Well, dummy that I am, decided to help release the gas, so that I could throw away the bad cherries and the jar exploded all over my kitchen.  I had cherries at least 4 feet from the crime scene.  In an attempt to hide the evidence of my housewife failure, I decided to clean the entire apartment from top to bottom.


Which was rather convenient, because afterwards, my husband called and told me that we would be entertaining guests that evening.  Which I did so, very successfully.  I say that, because I've had some rather terrible experiences in the past with entertaining Macedonians.  Like for example, not standing up and greeting the guests at the door, not walking the guests to the door or car at the end of the night, not making sure their drinks were full, not making enough food, or not having some sweet to serve with coffee, etc... And I heard about it from the husband or his mother.  I kind of developed a phobia when guests come over because of the damn formalities.  But this time, I decided that I wasn't going to pretend I was some native Macedonian housewife. Rather, an American who choose to live in Macedonia, that keeps a average clean house, is not working at the moment, is somewhat polite, and will make and serve food if she feels like it.  And it just so happened that I was in the mood for making food, and so I did.  My house was clean enough (actually cleaner than usual, due to the event that occurred earlier that day), I kept the drinks full as best as I could, and the our very small living room table didn't have an ounce of room for more food.  My husband was so pleased at the end of the night, and so was I.  But mostly, for not freaking out because I'm not perfect.  I mean, who set the damn standards in this country for hospitality anyways???  I think even Emily Post herself would struggle here.



Nov 24, 2011

Thanksgiving in Macedonia

There are so many things that I will have to adjust to while living in Macedonia.  Not recognizing American holidays is just one of them.  It's not Thanksgiving here, all the stores and banks are open. I guess I can consider that a plus because I need to go to the bank today, but it's really not that big of a deal, because if I really needed cash in the States I would just hit up any random ATM. But I'm trying to stay positive.  And I don't think I will ever adjust to the random speaker system set up around the city that randomly plays Muslim music. I don't understand for the life of me, how that is legal here.  How the city allows a group of people to install a public broadcast of religious music. Ha! I'm not even sure there is a city that has a speaker system that publicly broadcasts anything other than maybe a siren for tornadoes.  I heard that go off once when living in Cleveland.

Last Thanksgiving was pretty rough here...My family sent off the ridiculously expensive turkey (no joke it was like $30 for 7 or 8 pds.) to be cooked somewhere where they cook pigs, and it came back flattened and dry.  My mother in law put the dough for the apple pie in the freezer, when I told her to put it in the fridge (communication error). And then she also kept turning off the stove that was keeping the vegetables warm, every time I turned my back.  I swear she was out to sabotage me, but of course my paranoia was high that day. And she made three salad's in addition to the my side dishes, which were not put on the table until after the main course.  I'm still a little bitter about that, which is why I told everyone that today wasn't that big of a deal and I wasn't planning on making anything special.  But I'm not going to lie, I'm a little disappointed that there won't be any turkey or apple pie.  :(
What can I say, it's not Thanksgiving in Macedonia!

Sep 7, 2011

Dailing International Land lines or Mobile Phones in Macedonia

The procedures for calling from inside and outside the country of Macedonia can be rather confusing.  After having issues trying to contact the US Embassy today, I asked my husband to explain this topic in detail.
 
If you wish to call a number within Macedonia from outside of Macedonia: 
For an example, we will use the US Embassy's phone number.
+389 2 310-2000
 Dial: (00 389 2 310-2000)  

+ = Equivalent to dialing 00
389 = Country code for Macedonia


If you wish to call a number in Macedonia from within Macedonia:
Delete 00389 or +389 and add a "0" before the number you wish to dial.
00-389- (0) 2-310-2000
Dial: 02-310-2000


For Land Lines Dial:
02- Land lines in Skopje
031- Land line in Kumanovo

For Mobile Numbers:
071, 071, 072 - T-Mobile cell numbers
075, 076 - One Operator Mobile numbers
077,078 - VIP Mobile Operator

Calling Cards:
OneSimCard International SIM Card for 200 Countries with $10 Credit 
National Geographic Talk Abroad SIM,1070 International SIM Card
LG KP500 Cookie Unlocked Phone with 3.2 MP Camera and Digital Media Player--International 

International Phone & SIM Cards:
T-Mobile USA (Tmobile T Mobile) SIM Card and Prepaid Activation Kit
Nokia X2 Prepaid Phone (T-Mobile)

OneSimCard International SIM Card for 200 Countries with $10 Credit

Jul 16, 2011

"The Weight of Chains" Great Movie about the tragic breakup of Yugoslavia

Yesterday, I watched the documentary, "The Weight of Chains."  and all I can say is wow!!  This film was a real eye opener.  It takes a critical look at the role that the US, NATO and the EU played in the tragic breakup of a once peaceful and prosperous European state - Yugoslavia.  Skip down to the bottom for information on this film.

Max goes to the Vet

I don't know if it's the heat in this country or what, but I'm losing it over here.  Seven days, with temperatures over 90 degrees, and heat advisories issued on the news, I'm wondering...is this normal?  I've been hiding out in my bedroom with the a/c on, but that's not helping much because the A/C is giving me a headache and I developed cabin fever.  Yesterday, I got out of the house for a little while. We took Max to the vet for his second round of vaccinations.  The doctor was very annoyed that I kept asking so many questions.  It's my first dog, I wanted to make sure everything was okay.  But, he didn't speak English very well, and I didn't know how to say some of the words in Macedonian, so my fiance ended up translating all my questions, then all of his responses.  I was mostly concerned with the amount of ticks this dog gets.  I have never seen a tick in my life until I came here.  I don't understand why my dog keeps getting ticks.  We live in a urbanized city, there is very little wildlife, but for some reason, this dog manages to acquire 2 or 3 of these disgusting little blood suckers everyday.  The vet provided very little assistance on this matter.  He said to keep him out of the grass because this is the season for ticks.  Thanks, that helped a lot. And he mentioned we could buy one of those medicated collars to kills fleas and ticks.  But when we went to the pet store, we found out that they banned the sale of tick collars, for safety reasons.  I think insects sucking the blood from my dog and spreading disease is much more of a safety concern, but I don't pass the laws here.  However, they did have a medicated collar for fleas, so we purchased that one instead.  Apparently, it's not as strong as the tick one, but what choice do we have?  Hopefully it will work.  Here's a video of little Max in action:
 

However, I have found other ways to get the medicine.  Amazon, lol, probably illegal to have it shipped here, but maybe they won't notice.  Finger's crossed.
Hartz-Ultra Guard flea and tick Collar for Dogs 2 PackMerial Frontline Plus Flea and Tick Control for Dogs and Puppies, 6 Doses, For Dogs 89 to 132 Pounds
Merial Frontline Plus Flea and Tick Control for Dogs and Puppies, 6 Doses, For Dogs 89 to 132 
Hartz UltraGuard Rid Flea & Tick Shampoo for Dogs 18oz (Citrus)

Jul 14, 2011

Vistors in Macedonia & Turkish Coffee

It is not uncommon for guests to stop by unannounced in this country.  Cousins, friends, neighbors, just pop in, whenever they feel like it.  It's like an open door policy here.  And when they come, it is customary to offer coffee and food.  Specifically, Turkish coffee, and it's prepared in a specific way, usually not more than one or two cups at a time. 

How to make Turkish Coffee:
1.  With a Turkish coffee pot, add a cup of water, and place it over heat.  In the summer we use these miniature gas stoves  to save money. 
2.  Add 1 tsp. of sugar per cup, wait a minute. 
3.  Then add 1.5 tsp of turkish coffee, of your choice, or any coffee brand that is very finely ground.  4.  Wait until the coffee starts to bubble and rise, and then remove it from the heat and slowly pour into cup, dividing it equally between two cups, if more than one cup was prepared at a time. 

Jul 8, 2011

Getting Married in Kumanovo, Macedonia

Let me start with a little background information.  I am an American Citizen getting married to a Macedonian citizen in Kumanovo, Macedonia.  I warn who ever reads this, that getting married in this country, is not as easy.  I will explain my journey, as best I can, so that others can learn from my mistakes.

Jul 5, 2011

Another Day Ends

Just finished the best dinner ever.  The neighbor came over tonight, as he usually does, once or twice a week.  Mostly to entertain and make fun of America, especially Obama. I usually don't care for his company because he smokes a lot and drinks far too much rakija (home brandy); but he always provides a little bit of wisdom for me each visit; and tonight was no different. 

The 4th of July in Macedonia

Yesterday was my second 4th of July in Macedonia. It was business as usual for this country. The kids went to school, stores were open, and not a soul acknowledged that it is America's day of Independence.  They have a different day they celebrate for Independence from Yugoslavia, September 8th.  I feel like the re-adjusting to Macedonia is among my biggest challenges at this point. It's a little harder for me this time around. I guess the fairy dust has settled and I see everything clearer or less clear, I'm not sure.

Jun 22, 2011

Why are you living in the Republic of Macedonia?

I get this question all the time.  Why would you choose to live in a developing country instead of America, "the land of opportunity".  The easy answer to this question is, the same reason you ended up on my blog: curiosity.  I was more curious than anything, about what would be like to live in a different country.  I can always come back to the US; but when will I ever have the opportunity, to really learn a different culture. 

I feel that more than anything, America has left me without culture or tradition.  What I have is limited to my Italian background, from my mother's side, fast food, favorite television programs and working too much.  Yeah, so I'm a little unappreciative of all that America has to offer; but since I've met my husband to be, a native of Macedonia, I've learned that there is more to life than what I've experienced thus far.  Love, happiness, and family, are only a few to mention.  These aren't new concepts to me, I only forgot temporarily, what they truly stood for. 

I don't understand why that all feels different here.  It just does. All visits and socialization, in general, are appreciated by anyone and everyone, friends or family.  I am always greeted with a smile, good conversation, turkish coffee, and definitely food.  It's not uncommon for people here to just stop by for a cup of coffee or just to say hi and it's not discouraged for you to do the same.  When walking in the streets, it's customary to say hello, good afternoon, or good evening, whether they know you or not. 

The food here is like nothing I've ever had, the flavor, the aroma, the experience. It's all combined to make dining undeniably the best part of living in Macedonia.  Rarely are meals served from frozen or preserved food.  Meat and vegetables are bought daily, prepared by scratch and served on the table as a family.

It seems to me, that I had forgotten about these simple pleasures and it feels good to have them again if at all.  So, that's the simple and short of why I choose to live in the Republic of Macedonia with my husband instead of the US.   

Jun 20, 2011

10 Things I love about Macedonia

Updated 10 things I love about Macedonia:
1.  My family
2.  the food
3.  Turkish Coffee
4.  Sleeping in the middle of the day
5.  the Beer
6.  Home brandy Rakija
7.  the history
8.  Cheap cigarettes
9.   Not working
10. Ajvar!!